Our summer wedding in the garden - part III

Our summer wedding in the garden - part III

Mom and my best friend left 5 min earlier than me and dad so that we were really the last ones to arrive at the ceremony. My best friend was carrying our happy tears handkerchiefs as she was intended to give them to the guests. 

I was driving as I have a company car and dad is not allowed to drive it without permission from the company so I decided a modern bride can drive herself. It was much stress and all of a sudden this stress was gone when I stepped out of the car and was walking at dad's side towards the ceremony. Our photographer was waiting for the first shots of the arriving bride and two of my best friends were waiting in front of the old villa to wish me good luck.

When the music started the door opened and I wasn't able to stop smiling. There he was standing, waiting for me, my love, kissing me slightly when he took my hand. He was desperate for me to arrive as he was standing there alone in front of all our guests which were mostly my family and friends. I chose "I'm ready" from Bryan Adams for my arrival as it was exactly how I felt. Glad to be together we sat down and started to listen to all the officer told us. Our translator explained everything to my husband and his uncle and finally we had to answer the question we were waiting for. Yes, I do! Yes, I do!

Then we were announced husband and wife.

Woohoo - officially, legally married, husband and wife, Mr. and Mrs. K.

I never imagined how it may feel and can just say, it was wonderful!

My little cousin brought the wedding rings and it wasn't that easy for my husband to get it on my finger. This ring is really sitting tight and I love it!

After changing the wedding rings, signing up the document with our witnesses and the congratulations of the officer the music started again and we walked out of the room into a sunbathed park full of flowers and singing birds. "You'll never walk alone" from Mathou as leaving the ceremony song.

Our summer wedding in the garden - part II

Our summer wedding in the garden - part II

I drove to the hairdresser during lunchtime. My husband-to-be was happy to have this time for himself to get ready without me bothering him with questions "think about...have you...what if...". When I came back home he welcomed me fully dressed and he looked amazing! 

From that time on he wasn't allowed to go upstairs anymore where I intended to get ready but he enjoyed the fully decorated garden already while having coffee with his uncle.

While I was running in circles in jeans and t-shirt and my done wedding hair to fix the last details he left as he was supposed to leave half an hour before me.

My intention was to have 30-40 minutes for myself before I had to leave just to have a quick shower, get the last finish on my makeup, step freshly into my dress and put on the earrings, the new bracelet, etc. Plans are there to be ruined, aren't they? Honestly, I ended up with roughly 15 min. During these 15 min. Dad was reminding me every felt 5 seconds that we have to go, that I need to hurry, that he's ready downstairs and just waiting for me to come down.

I think he was even more exited than me as he would lead me down the aisle where my husband would wait. And another point that I'm his eldest daughter and the first who married.

I'm glad that I always was a perfectionist although it's not one of my best habits but on the wedding day it was helping. I already had make up on so it was quickly pimped and the evening before the wedding I had a long bath so a quick shower was really enough to feel still bridal. 

Our summer wedding in the garden - part I

Our summer wedding in the garden - part I

There are those long, hot Summer days that just seem to go on for ever and that usually end in an evening of sitting outide, drinking, chatting and laughing. Our wedding at the garden of my parents was exactly one of these days. The most perfect weather for a wedding you could imagine and a perfect location in which to enjoy it. From start to end it was a wonderful, sunny, happy day and we so enjoyed it.

On the morning of the wedding we still had lots to prepare although we did a good job the days before. But as always, there are many small things which need time and I loved to see how everyone was helping us along to make it happen in time and for us to have an amazing wedding. We can't say Thanks often enough for that. 

My husbands uncle and aunt arrived shortly before I had to leave for the hairdresser and gave me the first touching moment of the day. My husbands parents died years ago and he had a watch his dad gave to him to wear it on his wedding day, I liked this story already and reminded him not to forget to wear this special watch. His uncle is the brother of his mum and his wife came to me with a small present. She explained me that this is something she received from my mum in law when she married her brother and she thought it to be perfect for me now. A silver bracelet which is the most perfect gift for me. It has even the style I like so much and fits as if it's meant to be. That was honestly the best and most precious gift I received that day!

Our honeymoon is booked...

Our honeymoon is booked...

One of the last steps of the wedding preparation is done.

I finally booked our honeymoon - yeah - Ibiza, we will come for two weeks!!!

I honestly can't wait for the relaxation part to start soon. Sure the wedding itself will be the most exciting part but I feel more and more tired of planning.

To have holidays in near sight gives me a good feeling as we can relax completely as Mr.&Mrs. then.

Why Ibiza and not the typical spots like Maldives, Seychelles or Caribbean Sea?

Who wants more than 10 hours flight time if we have so nice places just around the corner? We don't want to start the honeymoon with a jet lag.

Ibiza for sure is well known as a party island but what we did is checking quiet places not near to the tourist region and we found something hopefully nice with the sea in walking distance and empty beaches around us. If we need action we still can drive into these areas. Most important for us was a quiet place, palm trees to sit below with a book, beaches where you don't have to lay down between strangers, a small hotel with breakfast outside instead of standing in a row for the buffet and so on.

I will for sure let you know if we made the right choice but I have no doubts.

The smaller island on the picture is Formentera, we may take a boat trip for one day to check it as well.

Enjoy the sunny week as best as you can.

Yours,

MissFaith

Insanity or just a bride to be?

Insanity or just a bride to be?

Did you ever plan a wedding? 

My wedding ticker on the web is telling me "31 days to go". And yes, you got it, I have a wedding ticker. Is that still me?!?

I tried to look at myself and what I'm up to during these days and realized that I am one of these brides I was joking about before. If you would have asked me how to marry the clear answer was in the same second "just a tiny formal celebration and then off to honeymoon". Where is this woman now?

I catch myself being more on google and wedding web pages than sleeping.

And I start to make these noises. You know, these bride noises when she's  looking at something soooo cute, like "Aaaaaah" and "Ooooooh", which means "I need that too!"

My husband to be is already asking me almost daily if we are still within the budget. Me, the one who tried to save where possible, seeing myself thinking about wedding bubbles where the price is three times higher than for normal ones.

Is that phenomenon normal or is it just me going insane?

But at least I'm still able to judge properly and I don't know how exactly but yes, I kept the budget (so far). 

31 days and while the day is getting closer I seem to relax mainly. Mainly because my subconsciousness seems to have another sight. A few days ago I woke up and knew that I dreamt of an awful wedding but luckily I wasn't able to recall details. 

As nice and perfect as a wedding should be, it's a bit scary too, isn't it? It's not that I have doubts, not at all. It's more than sure that I will say "Yes, I do!", I mean the whole day. Will it be like we want it to be? Do we have higher expectations than what's possible? And how will I survive my speech? Yes, the bride's speech. Which is unusual, I know, but I said I will do it and now I have to. No way back. Just because I did it more than often in my job doesn't mean I will get a word out on my wedding day - this was my personal misjudging. Here we go, the bride will look like a zombie while crying and trying to finish a sentence in front of all. I have to rehearse before but it will never reflect the situation...lets hope I'm doing it at least with not too many tears and interruptions.

For the time being I'm just happy that almost everything is prepared and planned so I have around 20 days to calm down. How to do that best? Any tips - they are more than welcome.

Still faithfully,

Miss Faith